God’s Witness of the Right Way

On the day of Pentecost, God’s life, His Spirit, came into and completely re-created Jesus’ followers, but the fundamental purpose for God giving His Spirit was to provide a sure witness of the right way, the only way, to Him.  “The Spirit is the witness”, John would later write, “because the Spirit is truth” (1Jn. 5:6).  No news reporters were in heaven when the Son offered himself to the Father as a sacrifice for man’s sins, and no cameras or microphones recorded that awesome, holy moment.  In the Old Testament shadow, when Israel’s high priest went into the Holy of Holies to present the blood of animals before God for the sins of the nation, no one, not even other priests, were allowed in the tabernacle (Lev. 16:17).  In the Son’s case, even the holy creatures of heaven would have been barred from witnessing the event.  Otherwise, the Spirit would not be the witness, as John said.  It would only be one of many.

Without God’s witness, the Spirit, people can believe that Jesus is Lord, but only with His Spirit can we ever know that Jesus is Lord and Christ.  This is what Paul was talking about when he said that without the Spirit, no one can say (and know it to be true) that Jesus is Lord (1Cor. 12:3).

Jesus Hated Life in This World

“He who loves his life shall lose it, and he who hates his life in this world

shall keep it unto eternal life.  If anyone serves me, he must follow me.”

John 12:25–26a

Preacher Clark testified once that God had spoken to him and said, “I am not a hypocrite.  I don’t command you to do something that I don’t do.”  Jesus was our example, and he expects us to follow it.  He did not tell us to hate this life even though he loved it.  He hated this life as an example for us, showing us how to hate it in a godly way, as he said, “If anyone serves me, he must follow me.”

But what is it about life in this world that Jesus hated?  First of all, when he came into the world, the righteous and the wicked were both living in it.  Second, when he came into the world, nobody in this world had the kind of life that he had, the eternal life that God gave him when He created him.  Therefore, nobody in this world truly knew or understood either him or his Father.  His Father knew him, and he knew his Father; every other creature in heaven or in earth was in darkness.

Before the Son of God rose from the dead, ascended into heaven, and cast Satan and his angels out, godly and ungodly creatures dwelt in heaven, too.  Also, no heavenly creature, except the Son, had God’s kind of life, just as no earthly creature had God’s kind of life.  Moreover, Paul said that from the foundation of the world, the Son of God was hidden from both men and heavenly beings until he was revealed in Jesus Christ (Col. 1:26; Eph. 3:9).  This means that no creature in heaven knew or understood the Son before he was revealed, just as no creature on earth knew or understood the Son.  In short, the kind of life Jesus hated in this world when he came into it was very much like the kind of life Jesus knew in heaven before he came.

All this brings us to a question.  If Jesus hated life in this world, then did he also hate life in heaven before he came to earth and returned to heaven, and cast Satan and his angels out, thus purging heaven of all ungodliness?  There was certainly something about life in heaven that Jesus hated, for when he returned to heaven, he made enormous changes there, purifying it, according to the author of Hebrews (9:23).

When Jesus prayed that the Father would restore glory to him, he said he was praying for “the glory that I used to have with you before the universe existed” (Jn. 17:5).  Before this universe existed, the Son dwelt openly with the Father in supreme happiness (Prov. 8:22–31).  After the universe was populated, in heaven and in earth, the Son was hidden by the Father, to be revealed at the appointed time.  Repeatedly, in the book of Psalms and in the prophets, we find the hidden Son of God asking the Father to let him come to earth and teach men about the Father.  For example: “Let me sing of the LORD’s eternal mercies!  Let me make known with my mouth your faithfulness through all generations!” (Ps. 89:1).

How happy must the Son have been when the Father at last sent him to earth to be revealed, to be free to teach men, as the Son of God, about his Father – and to return to heaven and openly enjoy again the Father’s presence as His precious Son!

Things That Are In Christ

The phrase “in Christ” is used seventy-seven times in the New Testament.  Seventy-four of those times are found in Paul’s letters.  Luke used it once (Acts 24:24), and late in Peter’s life, he used it a couple of times (1Pet. 3:16; 5:14).  During the night recently, I was lying in bed thinking about the things of God and the thought came to me, “How many things does the Bible say are in Christ?”  And so, I arose and looked up the scriptures concerning what is in Christ Jesus.  Here is what I found (along with a few verses that say “in me” or “in him” when referring to Christ):

God the Father

John 10:38b: The Father is in me, and I, in him.

2Corinthians 5:19: God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself.

The Fullness of God’s Nature

Colossians 1:19: God was pleased for all His fullness to dwell in him.

Colossians 2:9: In him dwells all the fullness of God’s nature, bodily.

Life

John 1:4: In him was life, and the life was the light of men.

Redemption

Romans 3:24: Being freely made righteous by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.

Believers

Romans 12:5: We, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members of one another.

2Corinthians 5:17: If anyone be in Christ, he is a new creature.

The Law of the Spirit of Life

Romans 8:2: For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death!

The Love of God

Romans 8:39: . . . nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord!

Understanding

2Corinthians 3:14: Their minds were blinded, and even until this very day, in the reading of the Old Testament, the same veil remains, not taken away – which thing is removed in Christ.

Simplicity

2Corinthians 11:3: I fear, lest, as the serpent led Eve astray by his craftiness, so your thoughts likewise be led astray from the simplicity that is in Christ.

Liberty

Galatians 2:4: False brothers . . . slipped in to spy out our liberty which we have in Christ Jesus.

No Human Differences

Galatians 3:28: There is neither Jew nor Greek, neither slave nor freeman, nor male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

Galatians 6:15: In Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything, but being a new creature does.

All Spiritual Blessings

Ephesians 1:3: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who in Christ has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in heaven.

Access to God

Ephesians 2:13: In Christ Jesus, you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ.

The Promise of God (the Spirit)

Ephesians 3:6: The Gentiles are to be heirs with the Jews, and of the same body, and partakers together of His promise in Christ, through the gospel.

The Attitude of a Servant

Philippians 2:4–5: Let each of you look not to his own interests, but each one also to the interests of others.  Let this mind be in you that was also in Christ Jesus.

The Calling of God

Philippians 3:14: I press on toward the goal, for the prize of the heavenly calling of God in Christ Jesus.

The Will of God

1Thessalonians 5:18: In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

Faith and Love

1Timothy 1:14: The grace of our Lord abounded, with the faith and love that is in Christ Jesus.

2Timothy 1:13: Maintain the standard of sound words which you have heard from me, in the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.

The Faith

1Timothy 3:13: Those who have served well earn for themselves good standing and much boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.

God’s Promise of Eternal Life

2Timothy 1:1: Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ through the will of God, in accord with the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus . . .

The Grace of God

2Timothy 2:1: So, my son, you be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.

Salvation

2Timothy 2:10: I endure all things for the sake of the elect, that they might attain to the salvation which is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory.

There are many good things in Christ.  May we discover and experience what they all are!

Heaven Did Not Know Him

At the beginning of his gospel (Jn. 1:10), John wrote of the Son of God, “He was in the world, and the world was created through him, but the world did not know him.”  It was revealed to Paul that from the beginning of creation, the Son of God had also been unknown in heaven.  Paul spoke of “the mystery of the Father and the Son” (Col. 2:2), “the mystery that was hidden from the Aeons (heavenly beings) and from generations of man, but now is revealed to His saints” (Col. 1:26).  This mystery, hidden from the beginning of time, was that there had been a Son somewhere in heaven with God, through whom God had created everything.  Nobody in heaven or earth knew that the Son existed until the Son was revealed in the man, Jesus Christ.

This means that at the beginning of his gospel, John could also have written this about the Son: “He was in heaven, and heaven was created through him, but heaven did not know him” (Jn. 1:10).

They Understood Nothing

It was not just Jesus’ prophecies of the rising from the dead or his statements about having come down from heaven that the disciples could not understand.

John 10:1–6

“Truly, truly, I tell you, he who doesn’t enter through the gate into the sheepfold, but climbs up at some other place, is a thief and a robber.  He who enters through the gate is the shepherd of the sheep.  The gatekeeper opens for him, and the sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.  And once he has driven out his sheep, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him because they know his voice.  They will never follow a stranger, but they will flee from him because they don’t know the voice of strangers.”  Jesus spoke this allegory to them, but they did not understand the things that he said to them.

Truths that we all now take for granted, people of Jesus’ time on earth had never dreamed of and could not imagine.

Be thankful.  You live in an amazing time.

Redemption in Two Parts

The redemption of the soul happens now, in this life.  The redemption of the body is still to come; that will be our salvation.

The Redemption of the Soul Happens Now

Ephesians 1:7 PJV

7. [Jesus Christ] in whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the richness of His grace.

Colossians 1:14 PJV

14. [God’s beloved Son] in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

1Peter 1:18–19 PJV

18. You were not redeemed from your worthless way of life, received by tradition from your fathers, with corruptible things such as silver or gold,

19. but with the precious blood of Christ, as of an unblemished and spotless lamb.

The Redemption of the Body Will Be Our Salvation

Romans 8:23–25 PJV

23. We who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, also groan within ourselves, eagerly awaiting the adoption, the redemption of our body.

24. For we are saved by hope, but hope that is seen is not hope, for what someone sees, why does he still hope for it?

25. But if we hope for that which we do not see, then with patience we eagerly wait for it.

Ephesians 4:30 PJV

30. Do not grieve the holy Spirit of God, by which you were sealed until the day of redemption.

“Would Jesus save me if he came today?”

     Many of us have had that question come up in our hearts.  And we have certainly hoped that Jesus would indeed save us if he came today.

Recently, the Lord gave me another question which will help us determine the answer to that first one.  It is this: “Would Jesus give me the holy Ghost today if I did not have it?”

If Jesus would give you the Spirit today if you were seeking it, then he would save you today if he came.  Would you be given the holy Ghost today?

“I Don’t Care”?

Many years ago now, I heard a lively congregation in Kentucky sing a peppy old gospel song which included the line, “I don’t care what this world says about me. . . .”

Those words can encourage sincere saints to be strong and faithful, but most of the people who have sung that song over the years were only puffing themselves up in singing it, for the world wasn’t really saying anything about them.  They were singing about an imaginary persecution, and boasting of an imaginary courage in the face of it.

We cannot really know whether or not we care what the world says about us until the world says something about us.  Until then, our task is to do the will of God so that we earn the test of genuine persecution, and if we do the will of God, that test will surely come.  And when that persecution comes, we will then, for the first time, know whether or not we care what the world says about us.

If the world has not yet said anything about you, please sing that old hymn prayerfully, asking God for grace to let those words prove true when your time comes to be tested.

Preserving the Treasures of the Gospel

January 2, 2018

I have spent the last ten days or so traipsing through antique ruins of Rome, “the eternal city”, straining my neck to view the tops of majestic monuments, trudging for hours over rocky paths and roads, climbing several of Rome’s famed seven hills, and squinting into dim underground caverns to glimpse graves deserted of the corpses they used to cover.  I have meandered through galleries viewing broken bits and pieces of a culture which many think is extinct but is actually well-preserved in a different form by those who are its heirs.  Much of what I saw would normally be cast aside as worthless junk, but through the efforts of lovers of that past, it is revered, fenced off, and presented as a precious testimony to a special life and time.  Dirty pieces of that past, all but insignificant even when new, are now encased, guarded, and allowed to be viewed only by those who pay the price of admission.  The enormous expense – gladly paid – and the enormous effort – gladly made – to preserve these ruins is part of the glorification of the culture whence those objects came.  Nothing of it that remains is deemed unimportant; indeed, it is all esteemed as nearly sacrosanct.

I have at least one thing in common with the spiritual descendants of Rome.  They glorify Rome and are devoted to perpetuating that Empire in its revised form, Christendom.  Their predecessors long ago blended Roman culture with the faith of Christ to produce the world’s greatest religion, Christianity, to which well over a billion people on earth now belong.  I am devoted, just as Christians are, to preserving something that existed two thousand years ago.  I know how it feels to be devoted to an ancient thing, to treasure the least bits of it.  I know the passion; I feel the same compulsion to go to any expense and to make every effort to preserve what my heart esteems as precious.  But the object of my devotion is not Roman culture or the religion that came from it; rather, the object of my devotion is the pure and simple gospel of Christ.  I do not glory in grand basilicas of the past or present, or in ancient or modern epitaphs, mosaics, or statues.  I glory in the love of God revealed to us through Christ and the apostles.  Every truth of Christ that I have learned is encased within my heart; I contemplate its beauty for hours.  I marvel at the gospel’s majesty, which, unlike Christian monuments and art, has not faded, though men have often plastered over its beauty with their doctrines, and covered its gold with the silt of vain traditions, and even though Christianity itself has many times attempted to eradicate it from the earth by persecuting those who treasured it.

It is my chief joy to discover any bit of the truth, any remnant of the true gospel, and I am constantly and diligently searching for it.  You are also invited to do so.  And you are promised that “if you cry after knowledge, and lift up your voice for understanding, if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures”, then you will find Christ, the hidden wisdom of God.  Please let me know what you find so that we may rejoice together.

Morning Proverbs

I awoke early one morning, and one proverb after another started coming to me.  Here are a few of them.  You do it!  Come up with proverbs of your own and let us hear them!

Keep your heart as pure as snow;

Out of it life’s issues flow.

Close the door to sin and shame;

Walk with God in Jesus’ name.

Hide yourself in light and love,

Thinking on the things above.

There is nought but One to fear;

Best to keep Him ever near.

In the light there is no death;

Hold it dearer than your breath.

Here is something always true;

God will judge the deeds you do.

Who has peace with God is blessed;

He will know eternal rest.

In the way of lasting life

There is neither sin nor strife.

Blessed the place to be subdued,

All He says to us we do.

The Burden of the Lord

The phrase “burden of the LORD” means “message from the LORD , and in the kingdom of God, it is a capital crime for a man to call his own ideas “the burden of the LORD”.  Israel had its share of false teachers who called their own ideas “the burden of the LORD”.

“And as for the prophet, and the priest, and the people, that say, ‘The burden of the LORD!’  I will punish that man and his house, and ‘the burden of the LORD’ shall you mention no more.  But because you say, ‘The burden of the LORD!’, and I have sent to you saying, ‘Do not say, “The burden of the LORD”!’ therefore, I will utterly forget you, and I will forsake you, . . . and cast you out of my presence” (Jer. 23:34, 38–39 KJV).

False teachers still claim to be bearing the burden of the LORD to the people who hear them, but it is really their own burden.  And they will make you carry that heavy burden for them if you believe what they say:

“Woe to you experts in the law!  You burden men down with burdens hard to bear, but you yourselves don’t touch the same burdens with one of your fingers!” (Lk. 11:46).

The true word of God is the easiest burden to carry.  Jesus told us so when he said that the doctrine he taught was not his, but God’s (Jn. 7:16), and that the burden with which God sent him to us was easy to bear:

Matthew 11

28. Come to me, all who labor and are heavily laden, and I will give you rest!

29. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am meek and lowly in heart, and you shall find rest for your souls,

30. for my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

One Creator

“There is no new thing under the sun.”

Solomon, in Ecclesiastes 1:9

There is only one Creator.  He created a Son first, and then chose to create everything else through that Son (Jn. 1:3), but even at that, the Son was limited to the power the Father gave him.  He could not go beyond it, and he did only what his Father wanted done.  While on earth, the Son openly and repeatedly confessed his utter dependence on God.  He understood well that no one but God is Creator.

In Ecclesiastes 3:11, Solomon made a strange statement.  He said that God has set eternity in men’s hearts, “so that man can’t find out the work that God has done from the beginning even to the end.”  It is a difficult phrase to understand, but I believe that Solomon was pointing out the inescapable fact that we cannot by any means go beyond the universe within which God has created us.  We have no power or wisdom that will take us beyond this creation; we cannot even think of anything beyond it.  In that regard, it can be said that no one has ever had a creative thought.  Only God can think creatively.  All we can do is use our imagination to re-arrange or combine elements of this creation into new shapes.  Solomon suggested this when he said that “God made man upright, but they have sought out many inventions” (Eccl. 7:29).  Men have invented ways to re-arrange or combine elements of God’s creation, but they have never created an element of it, or even thought of one.

This is true of every creature, in heaven or on earth.  Neither angels nor cherubim nor seraphim have ever thought anything except what belongs in this creation.  One may ask, “If Satan never had an original thought, then how could he be ‘the father of lies’, as Jesus said he was?”  The answer is found in the definition of a lie.  A lie is a re-arrangement of elements of the truth (which already exists) for an evil purpose.  For example, when the serpent told Eve that she would not die if she ate the forbidden fruit, he was combining the reality of eternal life with the reality of eating the forbidden fruit, and then telling Eve that those two things went together.  But they did not.  God had already told her so.

The serpent had not created anything; he had only combined two realities in a new way for an evil purpose.  And it worked.  Eve ate the fruit, persuaded her husband to do the same, and they both began to die.  All liars, that is, all who are like Satan, the father of lies, use the truth to their own ends.  In fact, the truth is the only thing they have with which to begin their evil work.

We have only one Creator.  He alone has thoughts that are not of this creation.  He alone has the wisdom to think of something not in this creation, and the power to bring it into existence, out of nothing.  And thankfully, He has revealed Himself through His Son Jesus, who came to bear witness of the truth, not to re-arrange it.

Ministers of Satan

“For such men are pseudo-apostles, deceitful workers,

masquerading as apostles of Christ.

And no wonder, for Satan disguises himself as a messenger of light.

Therefore, it is no great thing if his ministers also disguise themselves

as ministers of righteousness, whose end shall be according to their works.”

2Corinthians 11:13–15

Paul was not just hurling insults at people he did not like when he called them ministers of Satan.  Rather, he was warning his children in the Lord of men who had rejected the truth and were misleading them.  Nor was Paul condemning those men merely because they did not understand the true doctrine.  Paul was very patient and loving with the ignorant, as were those who worked with him.  For example, when Paul’s fellow-workers, Aquila and Priscilla, heard Apollos teaching the wrong thing, they took him aside and “explained to him the way of God more perfectly” (Acts 18:26).  Ministers of Satan are those who have heard the truth and rejected it, teaching their own doctrines instead.

Ministers of Satan minister to people things that are from the realm over which Satan has control – this world.  Satan is god of this world (2Cor. 4:4), and his ministers minister using worldly things such as worldly water for baptism, worldly food for communion ceremonies, worldly uniforms for worship, etc.  All such fleshly things are from this world, and Satan is this world’s god.

Ministers of Christ minister things from heaven, where Christ sits at the right hand of God.  No man can be a minister of Christ without the holy Ghost, because the holy Ghost brings from heaven the power and revelation necessary to preach the gospel.  True men of God “preach the gospel by the holy Spirit sent from heaven” (1Pet. 1:12), and there are precious few of them.  They may be like Apollos, and not yet see things perfectly, but they will continue to grow in knowledge until they do.  They are living up to all the truth they have been given, and because their conscience is clear, Jesus will continue to feed them the knowledge of God.

As a young man, Paul did great evil to the body of Christ, but he was able to do it with a clear conscience (2Tim. 1:3) because that was all the knowledge he had, and he thought he was pleasing God.  But when Jesus touched his heart, he ceased to do evil and began to learn to do good.  He told Timothy, “I received mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief ” (1Tim. 1:13).  Ministers of Satan, on the other hand, teach false doctrine in spite of having been shown the truth.  Their conscience is not clear.  Apollos was never a minister of Satan, even though he was teaching things that were not exactly right.  His conscience, like young Paul’s, was clear, and he, too, obtained mercy because of it.  If Apollos had rejected the more perfect way when he heard it, however, he would have become a minister of Satan, teaching false doctrine out of self-will.

If Jesus condemned everyone who thinks wrong things about God, nobody would ever come to the knowledge of God.  All of us have had wrong ideas.  That is not even the issue.  The issue is this: How many of us will give up those wrong ideas when Jesus shows us the truth?  There are many ministers who are teaching wrong things with a clear conscience.  I have been among them.  Maybe I still am; God knows.  But the critical question is this: Will those ministers continue in a clear conscience when they hear more truth?  Will they continue to grow in grace and knowledge, or will they reject the truth and cling to what they have always been told?  God is incredibly patient and kind to us who are ignorant.  Pray that He will grant us the grace to humble ourselves to His truth when we hear it.

Good for Nothing

“You are the salt of the earth, but if the salt has lost its flavor,

with what will it be salted?

It is good for nothing, but to be cast out and trampled on by men.”

Matthew 5:13

Those who come to Christ should be warned that if they fall from righteousness and become entangled with the world again, they will be good for nothing.  Children of God cannot go back and be the same sinners they once were; without Christ, they can only become worthless to everybody.

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Pastor John,

This blog gave me a thought, that is: The life we live as sinners, before coming to the knowledge of Christ, is a life that God has designed for us, to get us to Him.  And though it be a life of sin, if we are children of God, God is still there guiding us to Him and to repentance, all along the way.  The LORD knows His sheep, and He is guiding them to Him, even while they are in darkness of sin, and cannot yet see.

That life of sin, is a protected life of sorts.  It is a life that ultimately has purpose, and serves as a means to an acceptable end.

But a life of sin after we have known the goodness of God, and received the washing away of our sins, is a life with no purpose, that leads nowhere, and has no end, except for the Lake of Fire.

That life of sin is the most fearful life of all.

Jerry

God Does Not Get Over Some Sins

And Jehovah said to Samuel . . . “I have sworn to the house of Eli that

I will damn myself if the iniquity of Eli’s house

will ever be covered over by sacrifice or offering.”

1Samuel 3:11, 14

There are some evils which God will not forgive.  For example, the high priest Eli sinned greatly by not stopping his sons when he saw them grossly and repeatedly abuse God’s people who came to worship Him.  Long before that, the prophet Balaam greatly sinned by teaching the Moabites to seduce God’s people into joining them in idolatrous worship (Num. 25; 31:16).  Over a thousand years later, Jesus still had not gotten over that; he was still angry about what Balaam did to God’s people (Rev. 2:14).

There are some things God does not get over.  And there are some things we’re not supposed to get over, either.

God Condescended to Us

Paul exhorted us to “condescend to men of low estate” (Rom. 12:16).  But we cannot condescend to anybody as far as God condescended when He came down to help us.  Nobody is as far beneath us as we are beneath God.

Let’s always remember where we came from.

The Difference between Repentance, Godly Sorrow, and Reconciliation

Repentance has been redefined by many to mean feeling sorrow for having sinned.  But as good as godly sorrow is, the actual repentance is the actions that godly sorrow leads one to take.  Paul stated plainly that godly sorrow produces repentance (2Cor. 7:10); he never said that sorrow for one’s sin is repentance itself.

This is why John the Baptist told people who were convicted by his preaching to go do deeds that reflected godly sorrow for sin (Lk. 3:10–14).  He knew they did not understand how to repent, and so, he defined repentance for them:

Luke 3

10. And the crowds asked him, saying, “What, then, shall we do?”

11. He answered and said to them, “He who has two coats, let him share with him who has none, and let him who has food do the same.”

12. The tax collectors also came to be baptized, and they said to him, “Teacher, what shall we do?”

13. And he said to them, “Exact nothing beyond what has been mandated to you.”

14. And even the soldiers asked him, saying, “What about us?  What shall we do?”  And he said to them, “Don’t extort money or harass anybody, but be content with your wages.”

When men came to be baptized by John who felt no godly sorrow and had no heart to repent, John rebuked them, refused to baptize them, and commanded them to go and “bear fruit worthy of repentance” (Mt. 3:8).  Paul, likewise, warned men to “do works meet for repentance” (Acts 26:20).  Indeed, no true man of God has ever taught that merely feeling sorry for sin is repentance.  They all told people that if they regretted sinning and wanted forgiveness, they had to do something with those feelings, and in both the Old and New Testaments that “something” is called repentance.

Reconciliation is another issue.  Reconciliation may take place when we go to a person that we have wronged and repent, but it is also possible that reconciliation will not take place, for that wronged person may not be willing to forgive me for my wrongdoing.  In that case, I have repented, but he and I are not reconciled.  My repentance was not our reconciliation.  Those who repent have no control over how another person will respond to their repentance, and so, reconciliation cannot be defined as repentance; it is only a possible fruit of it.