Most people judge themselves by what they think they are, within. In the Final Judgment, God will judge us all by what we have done. Whose judgment do you think will stand?
You can flatter yourself by saying that you love people, but if you do not express love to those people in a way that makes them feel it, your “love” is imaginary; it is worthless. In fact, it isn’t even real. Remember the words of this song; they are true:
A bell’s not a bell ‘til you ring it.
A song’s not a song ‘til you sing it.
Love in your heart wasn't put there to stay;
Love isn't love ‘til you give it away.
Now, go give your love away!